{"id":264,"date":"2024-04-18T14:27:13","date_gmt":"2024-04-18T14:27:13","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/editaccordingly.com\/?p=264"},"modified":"2025-04-29T06:31:53","modified_gmt":"2025-04-29T06:31:53","slug":"chapter-four","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/editaccordingly.com\/index.php\/chapter-four\/","title":{"rendered":"CHAPTER FOUR"},"content":{"rendered":"\t\t<div data-elementor-type=\"wp-post\" data-elementor-id=\"264\" class=\"elementor elementor-264\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-5029a95 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default sc_fly_static\" data-id=\"5029a95\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-extended\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-63b58a5 sc_content_align_inherit sc_layouts_column_icons_position_left sc_fly_static\" data-id=\"63b58a5\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-7137a88 sc_fly_static elementor-widget elementor-widget-heading\" data-id=\"7137a88\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"heading.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<h3 class=\"elementor-heading-title elementor-size-default\">FILTERED TRUTHS<\/h3>\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-c96bfd9 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default sc_fly_static\" data-id=\"c96bfd9\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-extended\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-e299279 sc_content_align_inherit sc_layouts_column_icons_position_left sc_fly_static\" data-id=\"e299279\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-c396f9d sc_fly_static elementor-widget elementor-widget-text-editor\" data-id=\"c396f9d\" data-element_type=\"widget\" data-e-type=\"widget\" data-widget_type=\"text-editor.default\">\n\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-container\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\n<p><em>&#8220;Embracing Social Media on My Terms: Finding Confidence in the Age of Filters and Comparison&#8221;<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Social media is, quite frankly, the very last place I ever expected to find myself building a business. If you had asked me years ago\u2014even before everything\u2014I would\u2019ve said \u201cno thanks.\u201d I didn\u2019t want to share my life. I didn\u2019t want to curate anything. And I certainly didn\u2019t want to perform.<\/p>\n<p>But when everything in my world felt like it was crumbling\u2014my career, my confidence, my identity\u2014I found myself in a strange new place: painfully aware of how everyone else seemed to be thriving. Instagram became a minefield of perfect faces, glowing skin, success stories, vacation pics, and shiny new businesses. And for the first time in my life, something I never knew lived in me began to rise: jealousy.<\/p>\n<p>Not because I wished anyone harm. Not because I wasn\u2019t happy for them. But because I no longer recognized me.<\/p>\n<p>Anxiety doesn\u2019t just knock\u2014it barges in. Depression follows closely behind. I was emotionally paralyzed, drowning in disgust with my aging face, new unexplained deformities &amp; shame leaving me feeling unrecognizable. On top of everything else, my self-worth diminished to a level so low I never imagined.<\/p>\n<p>And here was this endless scroll of success, beauty, filtered fabulousness\u2014and I couldn\u2019t relate to any of it. It hurt. Badly. Not because of them, but because I was grieving me. My old face. My old energy. My old spark. I hated mirrors, so the thought of seeing myself on-camera? Unbearable.<\/p>\n<p>Yet somehow, I knew if I wanted to build this business\u2014EDIT ACCORDINGLY, this vision that had finally felt like mine\u2014I\u2019d have to find a way to show up. Not as a fake version of myself. But as someone who still had something to say. Someone who could style the hell out of a look, who could bring someone else confidence, even if I was still rebuilding my own.<\/p>\n<p>I found a way. A quiet way. An EDIT-ed way.<\/p>\n<p>I discovered tools that allowed me to gently filter what I needed to, just enough to post something without spiraling. I focused on the aesthetic I loved, the one I\u2019d always had a gift for. I studied grids. I leaned into visual storytelling. I treated Instagram like a canvas\u2014not a confessional.<\/p>\n<p>I never set out to be an influencer, and I still don\u2019t want to be one. But I do want to influence women in a different way: to find themselves again. To use style as a lifeline. To know that it&#8217;s okay if you\u2019re not ready to show your face. It\u2019s okay to filter. It\u2019s okay to protect yourself. Just don\u2019t disappear.<\/p>\n<p>Because slowly\u2014post by post\u2014I started to see \u2018her\u2019 again. <strong>ME, #UNIQUELYME<\/strong>. Not the \u201cbefore\u201d version, or even a fully healed one, but the woman in the process. The woman in progress. And that woman? She&#8217;s figuring it out. She\u2019s building something beautiful. She is building something on her own terms.<\/p>\n\t\t\t\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t\t\t\t<\/div>\n\t\t<\/section>\n\t\t\t\t<section class=\"elementor-section elementor-top-section elementor-element elementor-element-85dcd06 elementor-section-boxed elementor-section-height-default elementor-section-height-default sc_fly_static\" data-id=\"85dcd06\" data-element_type=\"section\" data-e-type=\"section\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-container elementor-column-gap-extended\">\n\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-column elementor-col-100 elementor-top-column elementor-element elementor-element-8a7a2c0 sc_content_align_inherit sc_layouts_column_icons_position_left sc_fly_static\" data-id=\"8a7a2c0\" data-element_type=\"column\" data-e-type=\"column\">\n\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-widget-wrap elementor-element-populated\">\n\t\t\t\t\t\t<div class=\"elementor-element elementor-element-0d49785 sc_fly_static elementor-widget 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